Masterpiece
*****
Excellent
**** 1/2
Very good
****
Good
**** 1/2
Just okay
***
Not for me
**
Definitely not for me
*

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

I really cherish the memories I have of Christmas while I was growing up.  Our family celebrated Christmas on Christmas Eve.  We would go to our church’s candlelight service and afterwards the church would hand out bags of peanuts and chocolates to everyone.  Yum!  Then at home we’d have chili or potato soup for supper and afterward open up our presents.  My parents might save one or two for Christmas morning, but the majority of the gifts were opened on Christmas Eve.  The next day we’d usually go to Grandma’s and have turkey or ham and just spend the day together playing cards and games.  We’re nuts over card and board games.  My Christmas (and Thanksgiving) holidays do not seem complete without them.

The pictures above are from 1971, 1978, 1984, and 1991. Top left is my brother and I, and the top right picture is me (left), my brother, and my cousin. On the bottom left is my brother, little sister, and I, and the bottom right is a pic of one of our card marathons. The little girls laughing are my little sisters. My husband was taking the picture, and as usual he probably said something silly to send them into hysterics. My grandma is also in the picture and she looks almost the same today!  Please don’t judge me by the outfit I’m wearing; it was a gift – I swear!

Of course, after my husband and I had our two kids, Christmases were all about them. We still opened a few of the gifts on Christmas Eve, and on Christmas afternoon or night we would celebrate with my husband’s family and open the gifts from that side of the family.  The top two pictures below are from 1995, and the bottom two are from 1997.


Unfortunately, I am not organized with my pictures at all and also haven’t taken many from recent years so I don’t have any to show you that are too recent. Plus, my kids would be more embarrassed! But, below on the right is a picture taken yesterday of where we live and celebrate Christmas now, and on the left is a picture of my house in Colorado where I grew up. We’re in Iowa, my husband’s family is in Kentucky, and my family is in Colorado, so celebrating holidays is a little tricky, but luckily we’re in the middle so we can go either direction. Thanksgiving is now usually spent with my side and Christmas is usually in Kentucky.

Thanks for taking this tour with my family, and we wish a very merry Christmas to all of you!

Be sure to also check out previous and future stops on the Advent Tour!

1 December

Alabama Bookworm

Joanne from Lost in a Good Book

Susan from You Can Never Have Too Many Books

2 December

Louise from Lou’s Pages

Penelope from Life’s Sweet Passions

3 December

Booklogged from A Reader’s Journal

Lisa from Book Lists Life

Alison

4 December

Ladytink from Ladytink’s Neverland

Kim from Page After Page

5 December

Vickie from Scrapbooking and Tidbits

Rob from The Snig’s Foot

6 December

Andrew from The View from Arizona

Marny the Bookworm

Kerri from Latte’ Buddies

7 December

Becky from Becky’s Book Reviews

Melissa from Book Nut

8 December

Amy from Passages to the Past

Alyssa from By the Book

9 December

Raidergirl3 from An Adventure in Reading

Sherrie from Just Books

10 December

Kerrie from Mysteries in Paradise

Dolce Bellezza

11 December

Chris from Book-a-rama

Bookwormom

Mister Teacher from Learn Me Good

12 December

Bigsis from Through the Eyes of the Creator

Trish’s Reading Nook

Julia from A Piece of My Mind

13 December

Nymeth from Things Mean a Lot

Lisa from Book Ahoy

Suey from It’s All About Books

14 December

Emily from Dreaming on the Job

Stephanie’s Confessions of a Book-a-holic

Cindy from Nocturnal Wonderings

15 December

Natasha from Maw Books

Somewhere in Between

Wendy from Caribou’s Mom

16 December

Strumpet from Strumpet’s Life

Chris from Stuff as Dreams are Made on

Tammy from Omah’s Helping Hand

17 December

3M from 1 More Chapter

Stine from The Washingtonium

Kim from Sophisticated Dorkiness

18 December

Alex from Daemonwolf Books

Leya from Wandeca Reads

Julia’s Book Corner

Hope is the Word

19 December

Laclau from Conversacions de Cafe

Krissi from The Swim Mom

Morgan from Insert Clever Name Here

20 December

Jessica from The Bluestockings Society

Naida from The Bookworm

BookClover

Book Thingo

21 December

Rhinoa from Rhinoa’s Ramblings

Melissa from Remember to Breathe

The Bluestocking Guide

Michelle from Fluttering Butterflies

22 December

Think Pink Dana

My Friend Amy

Nicole from Linus’s Blanket

23 December

Jane from Janezlifeandtimes

Memory from Stella Matutina

Debbie from Friday Friends Book Blog

Book Scoops

24 December

Carl from Stainless Steel Droppings

Kailana’s Written World

Sherry at Semicolon

Happy Thanksgiving!

I love Thanksgiving! I was a little sad last night as it was just going to be the 4 of us. All of my side of the family is in Denver this weekend, and my husband’s side of the family is in northern Kentucky. We couldn’t travel anywhere as my son has basketball practice over the weekend and also because of the distances (8 hours and 11 hours away).

BUT, this morning and afternoon I’m happy. The family woke up to the yummy smells of pumpkin pies cooking and shortly thereafter, the turkey. My husband and sons went out for a bit, and when they came back, they said the house smelled sooooo good. It does. Truth be told, I don’t really like cooking, but I love cooking Thanksgiving dinner. This is usually what we have:

  • turkey (of course)
  • stuffing
  • sweet potato casserole
  • mashed potatoes
  • green bean casserole
  • bread rolls
  • pumpkin pies

Sometimes I make cranberry salad, sometimes not.  If we celebrate with others, I’ll make pecan pies as well.  Sometimes I’ll have a few other items, but the above are our “must haves” for the holiday.  The three men of the house will drink milk, while I’ll have a little PInot Noir.  Sometimes we’ll watch football, other times a movie, and at least one of us will have a small nap after the dinner.  We also have a tradition where we watch the TV version (edited) of Planes, Trains, and Automobiles.

There is a lot to be thankful for.  All of us and our extended families are in good health, and my husband has a good job.  My kids are healthy and happy and go to a great school.  We live in a country that has challenges but ultimately is a great place to live.

I truly thank God for all of His blessings, and I also thank you for being a stimulating, vibrant community that I am proud to be part of.

Blessings to you and your families, and if you celebrate this wonderful holiday, have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Mr. Ives’ Christmas

mrives.JPGMr. Ives’ Christmas by Oscar Hijuelos was a Pulitzer finalist in 1996. Hijuelos had also previously won the Pulitzer in 1990 for The Mambo Kings Play Songs of Love.

Mr. Ives seems to have almost the perfect life. He has a successful career and a happy family. He helps with community projects and events for his church. He is a man of faith. Then his son is shot and killed on Chrismas Eve coming home from choir practice. The son, Robert, was only 17 and wanted to be a priest. From this tragic event, Edward Ives struggles with his faith and the meaning of existence. He questions his once firm ideals. He grieves. He grieves for a very long time.

I don’t know if ‘enjoyed’ is proper in this case, so I will say I really appreciated this book, but it is not for everyone. It is definitely not a warm and cozy Christmas story, but it is one that seeks answers to the hard questions in life. If you’ve ever wondered why God allows bad things to happen, you might like this book. It really doesn’t even come away at the end with many very solid answers, but it does show one man’s journey through faith, hardship, and loss in a sensitive and thought-provoking manner.

1995, 248 pp.
Rating: 4

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